What ranks top of the pet peeve list for army wives? It's the unfortunate comments that others extend to them. That's why I've created this top five list of things not to say to army wives. Army wives get the word out without directly confronting others about your feelings. We can customise the list to include your top five or visit www.squidoo.com/armywivespetpeeves for more things not to say list that you can choose from.