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On April 20, 2017 at 2:17PM, I lost my best friend, my brother William Tolley. He lost his life while fighting a fire in Brooklyn while serving as a firefighter with FDNY Tower Ladder 135. Although I take some solace in knowing he died doing what he loved, and that he was never alone on that day, the resulting loss still consumes me.
Billy was that man many of us wish we could be. He was that man who lived a full life, even as it was cut cruelly short. In this short life that he lived, he managed to father a child that he adored, he travelled the world, and perhaps most admirably, he pursued not one but two great passions. His career as an FDNY firefighter, and drumming for his band, brought him great joy and purpose in life.
Just as admirable is the idea that both of his passions gave something to others. His career as a firefighter provided him ample opportunity to save lives. His time as a drummer in a successful band brought the joy of music to thousands of fans throughout the world. This is a common thread throughout Billy’s life. Billy and I had countless conversations about donating to one cause or another, usually first responder or military related causes. He decided not to pass by and not take action.
It is within this theme of helping others that I have created a foundation in Billy’s name. I can think of no better way to properly honor Billy’s legacy than to actively support others in need. The Fires & Drums Foundation will provide support to the families of fallen First Responder and Military members. That support will be in the form of whatever that family needs, at that time. We will write a check to cover any expenses, or provide plane tickets to bring family members home, or simply grocery shopping for them.
With your help, we can provide that support, and by extension, carry Billy’s name into the hearts of many others.
Thank you!
Bobby Tolley, on behalf of William Tolley
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